Bobby and Zoi

A couple of years ago, I read 2 different books about Golden Retrievers changing the lives of boys with autism. Somehow these dogs were able to break through the barriers that these boys put up unlike any human ever could.  I set out on a mission, to get Bobby a Golden Retriever puppy.  Instead of a puppy, Zoi, a 2 year old blonde Golden came into our lives.  Unfortunately, Bobby didn't respond to Zoi like I had dreamed and it turns out that Bobby's dad, my husband Bob, was the one who really needed Zoi.

Since Bobby doesn't have any siblings who force him to interact with them, Zoi has taken on that role.  Bobby used to call Zoi "Go lay down" instead of her name.  Zoi didn't care and unlike any human doesn't give up after failed attempts to play.  Zoi does follow Bobby like a sibling and is there 24/7 like it or not. 

Here Bobby is trying to sit under the table and watch his DVD player, but Zoi doesn't care, she wants to sit there too.  Just like siblings-wanting what the other one has!!

Bobby is trying to open his birthday presents, but Zoi wants in on the action too.

Zoi likes to sit underneath of Bobby when he eats...one bite for Bobby and then he throws down one bite for Zoi.

Bobby is trying to play with his train table and Zoi wants to see what is going on.

Hanging out in the yard.  Zoi is on a leash, so she can't leave, but Bobby is hanging out close.

Bobby was playing in his room and Zoi went to supervise (well, sleep!!).

Alright you two, go get in your own beds!!!!

Bobby used to be afraid of dogs when he was a toddler.  Now, he gives Zoi treats, will throw a ball to her, knows that she is a dog and that dogs say "woof."  He is used to her being around all of the time and they play out in the fenced yard together.  Zoi digs holes and Bobby plays in them!!  The other night, I asked Bobby to do something...

Bobby can't really tell me how he feels about Zoi , or about anyone else, but when I was looking through the pictures of them together, I think that he loves her more than I know!!